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People are dumb
Emails and things are owed. Sleep deprivation means I rely heavily on spellcheck, but still I end up like Claudia (misspelled that one right off the bat) and her "who are you" instead of "how" so we'll be waiting until more brain cells join the awake party for anything beyond this, I think.
Update on Popsicle: Dad's blood is being thickened so they can put in a shunt for dialysis, which will in turn apparently make it easier to treat his inability to breathe. Sometimes I really wish the discussion of things like this did not make my toes curl in a bad way and my stomach start to heave and the world start to blur around the edges. It makes it difficult to follow medical discussions when you're always having to tell yourself, "Do. Not. Throw. UP."
Anyway. There's that. My brother is being an unbelievable bitch and his signifigant ex has more than gone off the reservation. She calls and claims that no one answers when she calls and that they don't pass along the messages she leaves. In the last two weeks the phones have been pretty much glued to people, so it's not like she's been calling and no one's been answering. This is not the first time she's said such a thing. We're friends on fb, so if she was trying to get ahold of him and couldn't, she knows (as we've discussed this) that she could just send me a message and I'd work something out. She's on fb all the freaking time, so it's not like it would be an added inconvenience for her, y'know? She also claims that she hasn't seen her ex (baby daddy of kids 2 and 3) in more than a year yet she has pictures she took of his wedding on February 11 of this year online.
And then there was this, waiting for me when I got home from work. Normally I just attempt to sort of fly under the radar because you never know when the court of SC will need to know that she's not exactly well acquainted with the truth on a good day, but I just couldn't hold my tongue. I tried. Really.
But an hour later she deleted it. While checking to see if she altered our friend status, I saw this:
If you want added hilarity, I'm pretty sure Aunt Eilieen there is the one who stole Jackie's inheritance-type money and oh yeah, kicked her out of the house, ignored her, and basically left her to fend for herself for years. And this was before she got knocked up, so you can't even claim it was the whole pregnancy thing.
Yeah. There's someone who should know whether you're a good mother or not. And the nightmares are of when her ex threw him in a dryer, and sat on him while she watched and did nothing, choked him more than once... You get the idea. I understand on a basic level, that relationships, particularly the toxic ones, are incredibly complicated. But I'd say that for now your Mother of the Year award isn't bloody likely this year either.
Update on Popsicle: Dad's blood is being thickened so they can put in a shunt for dialysis, which will in turn apparently make it easier to treat his inability to breathe. Sometimes I really wish the discussion of things like this did not make my toes curl in a bad way and my stomach start to heave and the world start to blur around the edges. It makes it difficult to follow medical discussions when you're always having to tell yourself, "Do. Not. Throw. UP."
Anyway. There's that. My brother is being an unbelievable bitch and his signifigant ex has more than gone off the reservation. She calls and claims that no one answers when she calls and that they don't pass along the messages she leaves. In the last two weeks the phones have been pretty much glued to people, so it's not like she's been calling and no one's been answering. This is not the first time she's said such a thing. We're friends on fb, so if she was trying to get ahold of him and couldn't, she knows (as we've discussed this) that she could just send me a message and I'd work something out. She's on fb all the freaking time, so it's not like it would be an added inconvenience for her, y'know? She also claims that she hasn't seen her ex (baby daddy of kids 2 and 3) in more than a year yet she has pictures she took of his wedding on February 11 of this year online.
And then there was this, waiting for me when I got home from work. Normally I just attempt to sort of fly under the radar because you never know when the court of SC will need to know that she's not exactly well acquainted with the truth on a good day, but I just couldn't hold my tongue. I tried. Really.
But an hour later she deleted it. While checking to see if she altered our friend status, I saw this:
If you want added hilarity, I'm pretty sure Aunt Eilieen there is the one who stole Jackie's inheritance-type money and oh yeah, kicked her out of the house, ignored her, and basically left her to fend for herself for years. And this was before she got knocked up, so you can't even claim it was the whole pregnancy thing.
Yeah. There's someone who should know whether you're a good mother or not. And the nightmares are of when her ex threw him in a dryer, and sat on him while she watched and did nothing, choked him more than once... You get the idea. I understand on a basic level, that relationships, particularly the toxic ones, are incredibly complicated. But I'd say that for now your Mother of the Year award isn't bloody likely this year either.