Oh my god, Marian, I'm so sorry. I'm not a prayers kind of girl, but I'm hoping that she pulls through and there's still recovery ahead. Can I ask what exactly has gone on with her? I'm not sure if I missed it earlier in your journal and I heard a bit about weight loss surgery, but how did it come to this point? *big big hugs* If you need to talk more, feel free to e-mail me or let me know of anything else that will help.